When you do this, it has to be they are constantly using you. If there have been times you have leaned on them, and they gave more to you than you gave to them, it’s now your turn to be the rock. You cannot just use someone and then not be there when they need you. Well, you can, but that just makes you an asshole!
Statistics don’t matter until you are one
SBA (Small Business Administration) which is a U.S. Government agency backs small business loans amongst other things has setup some Coronavirus Relief Options to help small businesses survive this pandemic. Some of these loans don’t have to be paid back according to the SBA website.